One of life's ordinary thought- "Death!"

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This winter, we started watching our much awaited ,T.v show - " Grey's Anatomy".
By the end of 5th season we have already seen a lot of people dying and a lot being born and moving ahead in their lives as it comes.

Knowingly or Unknowingly these things linger around on the top level of your brain the whole day.
and one fine day the strangest thing happened.....

while walking the road to pick my kid up from her bus stop...i let my thoughts wander ; and out of the blue, this voice loudly shouted in my ears" Cross the road carefully, You have to take care of your family...be careful"

But , that was a scary part. Where are u, just nowhere, what have u achieved yet...just nothing...And if not taken care ..it would be over?
On a regular day, for no particular reason , my mind has wrapped around death for the first time and i momentarily panicked.

I would be turning 35 this year, and this is not one of the midlife crisis moment.

Have you felt like this anytime? Even while writing..i can't say the word coz it's echoing back in my ears ( for a lighter mood lets just call Death - D )
I know that D will also happen to me, may be this month or next ..or may be a few decades later...but it WILL happen.

So, lets be prepared before it comes and says "Boo".
Few years back , one of my dearest first cousin met with an accident ( one horrible one) and we couldn't save him. Later when we tried to retrieve his online presence, it was all like HE KNEW , he would not return...every thing was so well mannerly arranged and organized in different folders....his insurances, his bank details, his investments....i mean all his financial as well as non financial stuff
 was orderly arranged...."HE WAS ALL PREPARED"

Are YOU ?
Here are a few things to do before D comes to you.

I am sure  if Anshul will look into my laptop, he would freak out coz i am a lil messy person when it comes to e-stuff :)

WHAT do you believe about D? And what do you thing happens after D? What is afterlife ? Any views? Coz i have none.

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